Your Dream Job Might Not Feel Like a Dream Every Day (And That’s Okay)

A developer sitting at his computer, not have a great day.

Because even dream jobs come with nightmares—usually involving meetings.

You worked your ass off.
Studied late. Applied wide. Leveled up.
And then you landed it: The Dream Job™.

The one you told your friends about. The one your parents actually understood. The one where the company culture page had dogs, emojis, and flexible hours.

And then… three months in… you caught yourself thinking:

“Wait, why am I still stressed?”
“Why does this feel like work?”
“Was I wrong?”

Spoiler: You weren’t. You’re just living in reality—not a Pixar montage.

Here’s what no one tells you: Your dream job can still suck sometimes. And that doesn’t mean it’s not the right one.


🌪 1. No Job is Perfect—It’s Just a Better Set of Tradeoffs

Every role has BS:

Too many meetings

Sloppy processes

That one person who answers every Slack message with “🤔” and no explanation

Your dream job isn’t the absence of pain—it’s choosing pain that feels worth it.


🧠 2. Feeling Frustrated Doesn’t Mean You Made the Wrong Choice

You can love the company.
Believe in the mission.
Adore your team.
And still have days where you fantasize about living in the woods and selling artisan bread.

That’s not failure. That’s just called having a job.


📉 3. Honeymoon Phases End—That’s When Growth Starts

Remember when it was all new and exciting? That fades.
And that’s okay.

The real value kicks in when you:

Start challenging decisions

Propose new ideas

Get trusted with the real work

Boredom isn’t a red flag. It’s a signal that you’re ready to push deeper.


🔁 4. It’s Okay to Be Grateful AND Still Want More

You can be thankful for your job and still:

Be underpaid

Feel underutilized

Crave a new challenge

Gratitude isn’t handcuffs.
You’re allowed to say, “This is good. But I’m capable of more.”


🛑 5. Comparison Is Career Poison

It’s easy to scroll LinkedIn and think:

“They’re doing cooler stuff.”

“They moved up faster.”

“They’re definitely happier.”

You’re comparing your behind-the-scenes to their highlight reel.
Don't do that. It’s fake. Your work matters—even when it’s not Instagrammable.


🚀 TL;DR

Your dream job will still:

Be hard

Be boring sometimes

Test your patience

Make you question things

That doesn’t mean it’s not the right job.
It just means it’s real. And real work, especially meaningful work, will always come with complexity.

If you’re tired today, that’s okay.
If you’re doubting, that’s okay.
If you’re still showing up, learning, pushing—it’s working.

Dream jobs are still jobs.
You’re doing just fine.


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Nicholas Mullins

Nicholas Mullins

I am a father, husband, software developer, tech leader, teacher, gamer, and nerd. I like to share my thoughts and opinions,
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